10 signs he's not that into you

By Cosmic Hype Staff - Wednesday November 28 2018

1. He doesn't respond to your texts

When a guy likes you, he'll constantly want to talk to you and will show genuine interest in your daily activities. If he takes time to respond or never starts the conversation, something's up. Some distance is normal at the beginning, but if you feel like you're bothering him by texting, it might suggest that he's not really into you.

2. He tells you he doesn't want something serious

Dating is hard, especially if you're looking for different things. If you want a relationship and he always finds a way to tell you that he doesn't, it might not be the right guy for you. If you're thinking you can change him and make him commit, believe me, this rarely happens. Try not wasting your time and getting yourself hurt in the process.

3. He flirts with other girls

He doesn't even try to hide it. You're out dating, and he takes every opportunity to flirt with other girls. At first, you might think that since it's not something serious yet, it doesn't matter. But be careful if this continues, it might be that the relationship doesn't mean as much to him as it does to you. If he's really into you, he would never flirt in front of you because that would ruin the chances of dating you. Besides, you should be the only one to feel special.

4. He doesn't want you to meet his friends

He always has excuses for you not to meet his friends. He tries to avoid it at all cost. Red flag! If he really liked you he would be delighted for you to get to know his inner circle and for you to be a part of it.

5. He wants you to change

There's a big difference between trying to lift you up and bring you down. If you feel that he's annoyed by you, the things you like or always critical about everything you do, then it's a sign that he's bringing you down. Those relationships are often toxic and you should look for someone that embraces you as you really are.

6. He ignores you

If you're out on a date and he's always on his phone talking with people that are not there, you might not be his first priority. He wouldn't do that if he was interested in you. He would show enthusiasm about spending time together and would want to learn more about your life and interests.

7. You only go out when it works for him

If you feel that every time you ask him out he has an excuse, but then he texts you to go out on his terms, then he might not be into you emotionally. He might only be looking for a physical relationship. If that's what you're looking for also, then it's all good, but if you're more invested than he seems to be, you're probably going to get hurt!

8. He talks about his ex constantly

It's ok to talk about exes on a neutral context, but bringing them up constantly might mean that he's not really over those relationships or he's trying to make you jealous. If you don't like him talking about his ex so much, speak up.

9. He's not emotionally involved

The relationship is very physical and you never talk about your feelings. He might not be interested in hearing them out. If he'd be more interested in you, he would want more than just your body!

10. You restrain yourself of being your true self

If you're spending time with him but you feel like you can't be yourself, something is wrong. You should be able to express your feelings and your thoughts without restraining them. Communication is highly important in a relationship, and if you're not able to communicate, then it might not be the right guy for you.